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Everything good in life is either illegal, immoral or fattening! Hai na? At least they say so. 

And so must be the case with masturbation! It feels so good na! Pakka, there must be something wrong with it. 

Will it make my penis short? Will I get pimples? Will it reduce my sperm count? Will it make me physically weak? Will I get pregnant? Is it even ok for girls to masturbate? 

So many questions… 

But what is masturbation?

Come on don’t laugh. Not everyone knows! 

Guys, girls and all of you out there, before we address this question first let’s understand what masturbation is. When you touch and caress your genitals, it gives you a feeling of pleasure. You continue to do this until you’re fully aroused and have an orgasm. This is called masturbation. 

So you can do it alone. It makes you happy. It is easy. It helps you understand your body and gives you pleasure. So far so good. 

Par kuch toh gadbad hogi!

For him, for her and for everyone

It’s a general notion that masturbation = boys. Well, hear this – girls masturbate too! During masturbation, a girl may rub her vagina, touch her vulva or the clitoris. Some women may use their fingers or even sex toys to masturbate and orgasm. 

So girls can do it too. That’s cool. Still there must be something wrong.

An orgasm a day keeps the stress away…

So there’s more – when you masturbate, your body reaches an orgasm and releases happy hormones. That feeling of pleasure that you get, yes, it’s the hormones! 

Masturbation can help you relax, concentrate better and feel happier.  

So masturbation has a big thumbs up from your body and your mind. Fir bhi…..kuch toh problem hogi?

Pleasure your partner

The best part of masturbation is – that you can enjoy it with a partner! 

Wait… what? Wasn’t masturbation suppose to be a solo task?

Not at all! When you have yourself learnt the techniques to please yourself, you can also tell your partner where and how you enjoy getting touched when you have sex. It adds an amazing variety to your sex life and do wonders to your relationship with your partner. 
Ek ke baad ek fayda….Arey kuch toh problem hoga!

Pimples and more

But what about all the questions? 

Pimples? Weaker sperm count? Addiction?

All bakwaas! Masturbation is a healthy act, as healthy as brushing your teeth! The only condition…do it in private!

There are many misconceptions around masturbation. But trust us (if not us then medical science), these are all just myths. You will not get acne or become skinny, weak or addictive if you masturbate! It won’t give you stomach aches and fevers, either. 

And boys here’s what you want to hear. Masturbation will most certainly NOT affect your fertility. If anything it keeps your sperms flowing. The fresher stock is always more potent.

Ok here’s the catch

So you can masturbate at any age, irrespective of your relationship status. You can do it as often and as long as you want to. Even if you masturbate more than once a day, it’s fine. 

However, keep one thing in mind –  if masturbation hinders your daily activities that is you can’t go to school or work or meet friends, it can be considered too much.And too much of anything is never good. There you go. We said it – the only probable downside. But you know better than that. So eat right, exercise right and masturbate right! 

One more thing, sexual fantasies are perfectly normal during masturbation. You may even imagine about things you wouldn’t consider actually doing in real life. This is normal too. Again, it must be private.

So next time you come across anyone who says masturbation is harmful, laugh it off and tell then you like going solo because you only live once. But pleasure, that is welcome every day. Isn’t it? 😉 

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